This Thanksgiving, my husband and I hosted dinner for our families. With my mom’s help, I prepared two turkeys and an entire feast, while my mother-in-law brought only a tray of cookies. The evening was lovely, but the next morning, I discovered all the leftovers were gone—except for a bag of dressing and a few cookies.
Confused, I asked my husband if he had donated the food. He said no but mentioned seeing his mom leave with several foil-wrapped containers. I don’t mind guests taking a fair share of leftovers, but taking almost everything felt incredibly disrespectful.
Now, I don’t want to host Christmas because of her behavior, but my husband seems more upset with me for refusing to host than with his mom for what she did. I’m so disappointed and frustrated.
Sincerely, Carla
