Emma Flint, a UK journalist, came out as abrosexual at 32, after years of struggling with her fluctuating sexual identity. She first faced backlash from friends who questioned the validity of her sexuality. Emma explained that abrosexuality means one’s sexual identity shifts over time—sometimes feeling attracted to women, other times to men or other genders.

Growing up, she never heard of this term and felt confused, especially in a society where only fixed sexual orientations were acknowledged. It wasn’t until Emma discovered the term on social media at 30 that she finally felt understood. She now advocates for the recognition of abrosexuality, hoping to educate others that fluctuating identities are valid, even if not widely known. Despite the support from most of her loved ones, she still faces criticism, with some urging her to “pick a lane.” Emma is determined to stay true to herself and reject the limited understanding of others.