Ian, 36, thought landing his dream job with an $800,000 salary would bring joy to his family. Instead, it sparked an argument that led him to file for divorce.
Ian shared that his new role required him to work overseas for three months at a time. He reassured his wife, 33, that the job was temporary—lasting just 2–3 years—and would secure their future financially. They could pay off debts, buy a home, and travel during his time off.
To Ian’s shock, his wife wasn’t happy. She said she’d feel lonely during his absences and even suggested she’d need “company” to compensate—implying another man. Devastated by her words and doubting her loyalty, Ian filed for divorce just two days later.
Now, his wife claims he misunderstood her and insists she would never cheat. Ian, however, feels betrayed and wonders if her behavior during his past short trips also hinted at infidelity.
Ian asks: Was he wrong to end the marriage, or did his reaction make sense?
