A woman began to doubt their marriage when she saw her husband becoming unduly intimate with another woman. She initially trusted him, but now she’s looking to the internet community for guidance on how to handle things and go on.
“It appears that my spouse could be crushing on someone else. He does maintenance work and has recently been spending a lot of time assisting a single mother, but since he has always been kind and helpful, I don’t mind. Late at night, they have been texting, but their conversations are mainly amicable.
When I saw a text from her, I became concerned because it seemed like she was afraid her ex would show up or something, and my husband wanted to go check on her at home. We fought bitterly over it.
Then, without telling me, he picked her and her children up from school and work the other day. He’s been “forgetting” tools at her house lately, and I can’t get rid of the suspicion that there might be a problem between them.”
“Right now, I’m really frustrated. My husband gets really upset when I bring up my concerns about him helping this single mother. It’s becoming worse, though. He even asked me to watch her kids the other day while she went to work, but I politely declined. I’m just sick of hearing about her and don’t want anything to do with her. My spouse became very angry with me for saying no, accusing me of trying to keep him from being a decent person.
I am at a loss for what to do as I am stuck. Should I ask this woman to stop messaging him at such a late hour? I’m beginning to find it awkward that their friendship is limited to that. However, it’s difficult because we have children together, so breaking up with him isn’t a simple decision. I feel disoriented and unable to think straight due to the whirling emotions. I would welcome any guidance.”
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