“He will never replace toilet paper. So I started bringing my own roll into the bathroom,” she shares, detailing how she’s opted out of replacing shared items like toilet paper and Q-tips. This protest has led to an eerie result: “I have not replaced them in a month, and it seems like he just stopped using them…”

“When we go grocery shopping, he just shoves all the bags into the fridge/freezer/pantry for me to empty later,” she writes. “I have stopped emptying the bags and organizing the fridge and just remove my item from a bag and leave it as it was,” the OP added. Her refusal to organize the chaos has resulted in mishaps, including raw chicken being left in the pantry. “I assumed he at least checked the bags to be going in their general locations,” she notes.

“Anyway, we have been fighting about this, and today he got upset the cat food scoop was not with the food and in the kitchen (where he left it),” annabananakittycat concluded her story. She also asked if she was wrong for trying to make a point that she couldn’t constantly be fixing everything.